Thursday, August 10, 2017

Week 30, July 23-29



Sunday, July 23rd-


  • Got to church 10 minutes early!!!
  • Had Braxton Hicks contractions ALL DAY long. At one point I almost called Labor and Delivery but decided to wait because it really is probably nothing to worry about. It was hurting for a while though.
  • Silas came home earlier than normal for Sundays because we were originally going to be out of town today and so he had no appointments. SO NICE!
  • Ashley, a 10-yr old whose family isn't very active, got baptized tonight so the girls, Ryan and I went to the baptism. Silas baptized her, which was nice for him. Luckily it didn't hurt his back, which is still bothering him.
  • I stayed at the Stake center for my self-reliance class and then Emma brought me home...and we talked until super late. :)
  • The kids were all in bed by the time I went inside. Silas and the kids had watched Swiss Family Robinson while I was gone.




Monday, July 24th-
Parade
Molly kissing Kylo Ren
  • Parade- Ryan was in the Lttle Mermaid “float” to promote their play and Cleod walked with the ward float. Silas stayed home because his back was bothering him so it was me and the 3 little kids for over an hour. It was weird...and surprisingly more quiet.
  • Picked up donuts and a meat and cheese tray at Lin’s to bring home for lunch.
  • Lazy time at home- Silas napped for a while and I did for 30 minutes or so.
  • A couple kids had computer time that they had missed on Saturday.
  • Kids played outside with neighbors a lot.
Boys having uncooked S'mores


Tuesday, July 25th-
28 weeks and 1 day along

Happy boy with his donut


  • Morning date with Ryan to Doughnutsville and to get school supplies
  • Piano lessons
  • Watch Huff kids and kids played outside a lot
Fort made by Grant, Gabe and Truman


Wednesday, July 26th-


  • Crazy playgroup
  • Family history
  • Kids in and out
  • Pack meeting- Ryan got his Webelos Award and Arrow of Light
  • Huffs gone
Cleod took pictures at playgroup
Molly being crazy
Arrow of Light
Ryan earning awards

Gid and Molly


Thursday, July 27th-


  • Slept in (A LOT)
  • Lunch date at Brick house with Silas- it was so nice because he has been so busy and hurting so much from his back pain that we haven't had much time together.
  • Groceries
  • Nap
  • Party at church pavilion with/for Shirleys
  • Silas put together bed frame that came today. Yea!



Friday, July 28th-


  • Babysit at gym
  • Took book to Kianna for birthday
  • TV time while I caught up on stuff
  • Good news about dispute with Chase- they refunded our money after they said they weren't going to. YEA!!! That was over $1000 so it was a big relief.
  • Pay day for subbing paper route- Ryan and Grant were so excited to have some money.
  • Random dinner- this happens a lot lately.
  • Play practice for Ryan
  • Dropped off treats at Smith's for Silas's home teaching
  • Lazy evening
Crafting and coloring





Saturday, July 29th-

This evening we spent several hours at Brett and Chette’s house, which we haven't done for so long. We had a good time chatting, eating dinner and playing games.


Pictures of Tamina taken by Molly
Molly selfies

Monday, July 24, 2017

Week 29, July 16-22

Sunday, July 16th-


Good Sunday. Not the best morning but we were on time to church at least and early enough for Cleod to pass the sacrament.


After church the kids were so great. They colored and played with Legos while I had a nap. Even after that they just played together. After dinner Silas fell asleep and I finally let the kids watch a Sunday movie. I had my self-reliance group tonight too.


Monday, July 17th-


Love days like today. I actually got to the gym and exercised for a few minutes, chatted with friends, got some grocery shopping done, almost finished washing, drying and putting away all the dirty laundry (it's almost midnight and there is a load in the dryer), cleaned the bathrooms, washed all the dishes, cleaned the main level for guitar lessons and for company later, and got to do family history for a couple hours after the kids were in bed. I didn't even need a nap. I didn't have to choose between exercising and chores, like I have so much of this pregnancy. So nice to feel kind of normal.


Cleod went to Young Men's camp early this morning so it's been weird having him gone but a little more calm honestly. I hope he's warm and dry tonight.


Jana and Jeff and their kids came through Cedar today for a couple hours this evening. We had frozen pizza for dinner and visited. It was really nice. We like them so much. :)


Tuesday, July 18th-


On our way home from piano lessons this afternoon Silas was home getting ready to go up the mountain for the Dad’s night at YM Camp with Cleod when he threw his back out...tying his shoes. Seriously?!


We took him right to Josh’s office to get adjusted but he is in lots of pain and can’t move normally. We ended up taking him up to camp ourselves so he could at least say hi. On the way, Cora threw up in the van (gross, gross, gross) so we must have a stomach bug at our house. Late last night Grant came upstairs complaining about his tummy and ended up throwing up once but then slept all night and was fine this morning so I thought it was just what he ate or something. Apparently not. Lovely.


It was good to see Cleod and it was actually good for Silas to walk around for a while. We made the kids stay in the van so we hopefully don’t infect anyone who is staying up at camp.


Lots of reserved ordinances!!


Wednesday, July 19th-


  • Silas’s mobility improved throughout the day but he still is in pain
  • Rolling papers and watching Mary Poppins
    Cora threw up all over the living room and entry way this morning. I was not a happy mother. She didn’t throw up again but wasn’t herself all day.
  • Avoided the gym and playgroup due to the tummy bug stuff.
  • Smores in the oven (too bad I'm the only one who will eat them)
    After lunch we went out to do the Rushton’s paper route. At first Ryan was a little whiny but he got into it and it was fine. Grant was a paper route champ once again. He just gets it done quickly and poor Ryan is afraid that dogs or bees are going to chase him.
  • Although Cora was tired the whole time, we escaped anyone throwing up while we were doing papers, which was a relief.
  • Went to Tiki Shack for a treat for the hot boys after doing papers.
  • Grabbed Panda Express for the missionaries that we were supposed to feed tonight but canceled due to the sick kids.
  • New KING-SIZED mattress came in the mail today so we got the old bed out of the way and set it up. We realized that we can’t use our current frame even though it can be king-sized so we will have to wait until a frame comes sometime next week. Until them it will be on the floor.
  • Molly slept in the box that the mattress came in. She was SOOO excited when we said she could.

Molly, all ready for bed...in a box


Thursday, July 20th-


Today we stayed home all day which is super rare. In fact, Ryan was supposed to have play practice but I totally forgot. The schedule has just been off the last few days with kids being sick. Today everyone seems good though.

Playing Tiki Shack with the big box

This morning Silas left for his boy’s weekend with the Warby boys and friends. His back wasn’t great this morning and he said that the car ride to Heber wasn’t good but it improved again through the day. Hopefully it will keep improving.

The kids found ways to entertain themselves and we got the house cleaned.



Friday, July 21st-


  • Babysat at gym
  • Cora and the boys stayed home because she was acting weird again and looked a little pale.
  • Fed the kids and then went with Amber to lunch at Brenda Orton’s house with a few ladies from the ward. It was so nice getting to know each of them.
  • DQ dinner
    Cleod got home from YM camp and we went to pick him up at the church. He is super tan and very happy.
  • At camp he got 3rd place in archery...something he has only done a few times at day camps. He even won some fancy arrows. Apparently he has a talent we didn't know about.
  • Ryan to play practice
  • Groceries
  • Pick up Ryan and went to DQ for dinner.
  • Had a little girl's night with some neighbors and friends to say good bye to Megan. Super fun



Cleod at YM camp
Some of the boys at YM camp

Saturday, July 22nd-


Attempt at a good photo
Random day. Silas is still in Salt Lake but the kids and I got ready this morning to go,to Frank Heiser’s wedding. We got to the church a few minutes late and found that there was a funeral there so they had changed locations. We started going home we saw a wedding in someones front yard but it had already started so we kept driving. Silas had mentioned to him that we might come but I realized that I had not officially RSVP'd so they weren't expecting us or they would have contacted us about the location change. Anyway, the kids were a little bummed so when we got home we had brownies and ice cream...our own wedding reception. Hahaha.


My cute kids
"Wedding Reception"


The kids spent the next few hours in and out of the house, doing chores and reading. I worked on the blog for a while (I was a month behind on getting pictures onto it).


Ryan went over to the Stonelys for a few hours and Gabe came over to play with Grant.
In the evening, the kids and I went to see Cars 3 at the movie theater which was fun. We stopped for smoothies and then went to play at the library park. Molly has been asking to go there all summer, poor girl, but it is usually packed and that stresses me out. When we were driving by today it wasn't too busy so we stopped. She was a happy girl!





Once home from the park we did showers, for church clothes ready and the other bedtime stuff. I got the kids in bed by 9:30pm, which is pretty good compared to the norm lately.


Silas got home around 11pm and I am happy to have him back. Molly woke up for a minute when he got home and was cute with him.

Week 28, July 9-15

Sunday, July 9th-


  • Molly selfies
    Church
  • Rest
  • Dinner
  • Cleod meeting about scouts
  • My Self-Reliance class



Monday, July 10th-


  • Babysat at gym
  • Swimming lessons
  • Lunch
  • Laundry, cleaning, making laundry soap
  • Braxton over to play with Cleod
  • Guitar lessons- Lori and kids came over too
  • Appointment with Laurie- love hearing baby’s heartbeat
  • Dinner
  • Home evening = talent show
    • Little emotional and stressful but overall it was fun
  • Reading time before bed. Love when that happens. (Probably happens about 50% of the time.)


Cora's dance for Home Evening


Tuesday, July 11th-


  • Swimming lessons
  • Piano lessons
  • Relief Society- self-defense





Wednesday, July 12th-


  • Playgroup
  • Swimming lessons
  • Swimming after for 2.5 hours (had packed lunch)
  • Kids played outside with neighbors, even when it rained
  • Ryan and Grant to cub scouts
  • Cleod to YM for pack check. Ryan stayed too to pass off a cub requirement.


Playgroup


Thursday, July 13th-


  • Dug through couches for scout trailer keys and started freaking out on the kids.
  • Wal-Mart with all the kids and “lost” Cleod for 15 or 20 minutes. Really he just didn't listen and waited for me in the wrong place. Kind of freaked out again.
  • Last day of swimming lessons. Ryan passed level 3 but the other kids technically need to redo their classes, which is fine because they are all happy in the water just need work on certain things.
  • Home for showers and lunch
  • Silas came home and found the keys hanging on the wall. Haha
  • Ryan and I went to chat with the mayor for a cub scout requirement. He loved it and asked great questions. I even learned some new things about how the city runs.
  • Watched the Shirley kids for a couple hours so their parents could finish moving stuff out of their house.
  • Dinner at Duck Creek with Grandma and Grandpa Rowley.



Happy campers


Friday, July 14th-


Cora lost her other front tooth!
Tonight we had a dinner for the Butterworths and the Huffs who are leaving soon. It was nice to get together with friends and neighbors and eat and visit. I am relieved it is done but it was really nice and I had a lot of help.



Saturday, July 15th-


Silas and I “met” 20 years ago today. We actually met the first Sunday I was in Cameron but he doesn't remember meeting me until the dance on the first night of Youth Conference when I asked Selissa’s shy brother to dance.


Good friends


Today we had some time with two of our favorite couples. We went to the temple with Jay and Ina and then to dinner and had a great time talking. One thing we talked about was having Cleod take care of their house while they are on their mission. We are going to miss the Butterworths.


Brett and Deruchette watched the kids tonight and we stayed for a few minutes to chat with them when we picked up the kids. We haven't seen each other in weeks but it is always just comfortable to chat about whatever. The kids enjoyed being with their kids so much tonight too.


Time of sorrow


When we were in the temple this evening I noticed a phrase that had more significance to me today than it has in the past. It was about sorrow and how times of sorrow help us through opposition. The last few months, especially April, May and June, were a time of sorrow for me in some ways and as I am coming out of the time that felt so hard for me I am feeling grateful for the experience and hope I can take something from it that will help me as I inevitably have more hard times. For what has seemed like a long time I have felt alone and sometimes abandoned by the Lord. I know that wasn't really the case and I even knew it then but I still felt that way. I think the Lord might have wanted to see how well I would do….and honestly, I'm not super happy with my performance. BUT, I also recognize that I may have done the best I could have in those circumstances.


What I learned:
  • Enduring poorly isn't helpful but at least I didn't give up.
  • Complaining just makes it worse.
  • I need to work on finding gratitude, even during tough times.
  • I'm grateful for the solid foundation I had because I could have drifted during this time.
  • Service heals...and I need to recognize that that includes serving my family (which also includes being more positive about my husband's calling).